Friday, September 30, 2011

An uncommon story (part I.)


September 30, Granville.

There was once a boy who loved to ride on top of rickety trucks loaded with a circus tent and his family's belongings. They would travel all over his country, Peru, in South America, to villages in the Amazonian jungle and in the Sierra mountains, to the ocean, to the cities, and pitch the tent for a few days or weeks. He would go to school in the morning and work in the show in the evening. He loved to hide in the darkness beyond the campfire light and listen to the men gossip and talk until the wee hours of the night. He loved to travel and get to be the new kid in town. Then there came a time when he yearned for bigger skies, and he came to the United States. There he worked harder than he ever thought was possible, saved enough to buy a home, and made his way into a new family.
His is a typical American immigrant story. Only he wears makeup and a costume for a living and works thirty-five feet up in the air.
His name is Fridman Torales Rios. He is a circus performer.
Fridman is thirty-three years old, born and raised in what is one of the poorest social group among one of the poorest countries in the world. That he says: In Peru the circus is about the lowest you can get.
And:
I thought everybody's life was like ours: I never thought for a moment that we were exceptional for being in the circus.
A life of hardships, an exceptional life.
But then again, this he says: I had nothing, but I had everything.
There always was food on the table, there always was work, there always was travel, friends, and the circus. A childhood memory, maybe the only one of want: when he was a boy Fridman longed for a bicycle. Not many toys, no toys for Christmas, but a new pair of pants, some new clothes to last you the year. His mother couldn't afford to buy him a bicycle, his father he didn't bother to ask. The circus owner's son had a brand new bicycle, and he so longed for it, and he still remembered that longing years later when he bought a bicycle for his own son.
He made his own toys.
We had nothing but we had everything.
In Peru in the eighties circus life was a camping tent for a home, his family ten feet by ten feet long, richer families as much as twenty feet long, most often home-made, and in the tent one arranged partitions if it was big enough, but the floor was always dirt, and cooking was done on a wood stove, inside a separate tent. There was competition as to who would have the nicest tent, with the nicest decorations, the most windows. Living on his own Fridman soon became well-known for crafting custom tents, and sold them to fellow circus people.
Or simply life was a mattress under the bleachers, under the circus tent, for the city workers, or the odd youth, like Fridman after he left his parents at the age of twelve to go find work on his own.
Like a soldier you carried your mattress on your back, and when the night came you laid out your mattress under the bleachers and there you slept.
That, and you carried your water.
You had to suffer to get water, to bathe, to cook, to do everything, you couldn't waste it. Reminiscing.
Water has always been for me the most precious thing there is, water is sacred.
You had to fetch your daily water at a water truck, or at the river. At the bigger circuses the city would provide a water hose, but in all the others, smaller circuses, one had to carry his own water, bartering a gallon of water for a free entrance to the show at the nearest home, or just buying it. In the Amazon things could be easier, there was often a river where one could wash clothes and bathe. To get power the bigger circuses had generators, like American circuses, and circuses like his father's would get the city's electric company to come and connect them, or would simply send someone to climb the nearest post and steal power. You connected the positive with the negative and here you were.
There I learned about electricity.
We had nothing but we had everything.
(To be continued.)

11 comments:

Mat Coes said...

Oh, yes. More please.
It's obvious from the ground that Fridman is an exceptional man, and not just in the air. I'm so glad to hear his story.

Harry Kingston said...

Please lets here more about Fridman's, this is your life.
Reading this sure makes one thankful for what we have in life.
Also would like to know how he met you Valerie.
Harry in Texas

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Jack Ryan said...

Amazing and beautiful. Look forward to reading more!

Jim Royal said...

Fridman and I first met on the Carson & Barnes Circus. In those early days, he helped me with my pitiful Spanish and I helped him with his constantly expanding English vocabulary. He has since added French to his list. He never ceases to amaze me with the new skills he acquires outside of the circus ring. In the ring he has mastered many of the circus arts. He is one of those special artists who truly connect with their audiences. No matter how tired he might be, or how difficult the circumstances, he is electric in the ring. We are so very grateful that he is a member of the Kelly Miller team. Beverly and I are so pleased to call him friend. As a circus professional and as a human being, he truly is "with it and for it".

Anonymous said...

I understand about the water.
In 1981 we spent a year in Mexico with Circo Atayde, but it was a second unit. Very few big cities for us and we moved almost every day. We were in deep southern Mexico and Yucatan. I saw paradise but it was very primitive. Bottled drinking water was no problem. Presidente Portio had made potable water available to the entire country and usually a water truck came to the lot every day and you could exchange your 5 gallon empty glass bottle for a full one.
Wash water was a different matter. It usually came from one source; either a well or a stream or a hose. Each village was different. We would hire 2 kids and give them each 2 buckets and they spent the mornings fetching water and filling up a large barrel we had. With that we would bathe, I would wash and rinse some clothes and we would have water for the bears.
I could wash and rinse my hair in 1 gallon of water.
To this day I don't waste water. Every time I see water running from a hose with good pressure, I am grateful. I never take it for granted.

patrizia said...

This is quite fascinating, moving and lovely, Valerie. I hope you continue with it.

Valérie Berta Torales said...

Thanks everybody.
Yes, I'm writing the rest of it these days, just slow going as there is as always so much more going on.

Tiffany said...

Love hearing about Fridman's life - and so grateful to know you all. Love you! Tif

Miklhyfn said...

Thank you for sharing this with us. It is a loving, and touching story.
And I love your writing.

Miklhyfn said...

I am so glad you are sharing this revealing, and touching story. And I do love the way you write. Looking forward to future installments.